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Self-Control in a Wired World

Yesterday I preached a sermon about self-control from Proverbs 25:28 that says, "A man without self-control is like a city broken into and left without walls." I focused on the issue of media, the internet, and today's new technologies. I don't think I'm the only person who would identify this as an area where it's easy to lack self-control. I think a lot of us we could rephrase the words of Proverbs 24:33-34 about the sluggard and say, "A little web surfing, a little Facebook, a little folding of the hands around the smart phone and spiritual poverty will come upon you like a robber."

Listen online or download the sermon here.

Pastor Don Devries wrote up some application questions based on the sermon that I think are good:

1. What things are you tempted to do instead of what you should be doing? What do you fill your time with that crowds out activity of eternal value?


2. Have you feasted so much at the table of the world that your hunger for the Lord (Matthew 5:6) has diminished and your first love (Revelation 2:4) has grown cold? What can you do to rekindle that love and hunger?

3. What allowable and permissible pursuits have you allowed to rob you of your service to God's church and His kingdom? What would change look like?

4. What things have crowded your life that keep you from fruitfulness (like time in God's word, prayer, fellowship, evangelism, etc.)? What steps of repentance do you need to take to begin the process of change?

5. Paul writes in Ephesians 5:15-16a "Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, making the best use of the time..." How can you cultivate wisdom in your use of time? How can you put the eternal pursuits above the trivial?

Listen to the sermon.

Comments (9)

Good thoughts, Josh! As I was thinking through my usage of social media two years ago, I decided to start using it to share my faith more by bringing God up in the conversations I'm already having online. My youth group got into it and from there it spread to thousands of teens around the world. It was amazing! This year we set dates for us all to focus on being intentional about sharing our faith online: Jan 31 to Feb 13. More info here, in case you're interested.

A timely message and blog entry. Thank you.

Good stuff Josh. About 6 months ago I made yet another change. I do Internet stuff only out of my phone. If I'm home, it's family time, I do not sit in front of my computer. I have a few short breaks during the day and that's when I do Facebook to check on my friends and Twitter to look for interesting articles. That probably amounts to about an hour of my day. So far I have not experienced it robbing me of my affections fo Christ. On the contrary, it actually ignites it frequently as I come across blog entries like this.
Break is over, got to go.
Keep it up brother!

Ouch. And thanks.

Great reminder, Josh! Thank you.
A decision by a good friend, Monica at Revive Our Hearts, convicted me some time ago about my excessive use of social networking. She went on a fast of these technologies for a while to break free of their control in her life. I've found I need that sometimes, too. I make "appointments," now, for these things, and follow them up with other pressing appointments to make sure that I don't abuse my time.

Thank you for the post Josh, it is definetely something we have to be really careful of. I'm praying for you! God bless your ministry

Thank Josh for the .... oops...times up.

Just kidding. Your right, in moderation, it can be effective. I have been curbing my "online" time to only purposeful things. I am connected 80% of the time whether PC or Iphone. If used right, it can actually carry you further. As for games, endless guitar shopping, those days are over. It is my "pencil sharpener" and how I keep my spiritual intellectual juices flowing and then I share with so many folks who do not spend time in the Word. So, thank you for your insight and witnessing. I will now include you on my journey.

DS in TX

Hi... interesting and thought provoking ideas. God does use the internet for a lot of good. I was led to support Joe and Denise Holman's ministry in Bolivia whilst searching for a picture on Google Images. I wouldn't have looked here if Denise hadn't mentioned Blue Ridge on her Facebook.

I do agree that it can eat up time far better spent on better things though.

God Bless, Tim.

Wow! this is so amazing. I'm more than just glad to here this... Praise GOD to your life, brother.

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