Boy Meets Girl

New Updated Edition

I wrote Boy Meets Girl the year after I was married. It was a great chance to answer many of the questions that were raised by my first book, I Kissed Dating Goodbye. I know the last thing most singles want is more rules and, in Boy Meets Girl, I wanted to offer an alternative: an intentional, God-pleasing game plan for finding a future spouse. In the book, I discuss how biblical courtship (a healthy, joyous alternative to recreational dating) worked for me and my wife Shannon, to give an encouraging and practical example for readers wanting to pursue the possibility of marriage with someone they're serious about. This updated version includes a new foreword, a new chapter, an all-new "8 Great Courtship Conversations" section, and some updated material throughout.

Bonus: 8 Great Courtship Conversations

One of my favorite parts of the updated edition of Boy Meets Girl is the new guide for couples called "courtship conversations." So many couples I know want something more than just dinner and a movie--these are just fun and easy-to-pull-off date ideas that include get-to-know-you questions meant help couples grow in their friendship and learn more of who the other person really is.

Here's a video clip of me talking about the book:

The I Kissed Dating Goodbye DVD (with new Boy Meets Girl messages)